Stephan Miller

03 Apr, 2008

You Can Trust Me Just About As Far…

Posted by: Stephan Miller In: Uncategorized

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I sometimes look back at the posts I have written and then back at my site and think, "Damn, these people must think I’m an asshole."

I say, "You need to do this. This works too. And try this."

When I look at this blog and other sites I have, none actually fit the perfect rules I have written in stone on this blog or in my past articles.

I make a big point of hating hypocrites. It is one of my pet peeves. I argue with new casters and commentators. If anyone has the nerve to turn on the Fox News Radio station at work, I don’t stop. If I have to hear the propaganda, you are going to hear some of my thoughts on the subject and they aren’t pretty.

So before anyone calls me out, let me try to rationalize this a little.

This stuff takes a lot of time. I always thought I would build a algorithm for creating a site. Not software, but a step by step generic plan to build any site. That’s how I tackled blogging and Wordpress.

time_gear_mechanic_266571_l Create a theme to get to know that part of Wordpress. Create a plugin to get an idea of how I can bend the Wordpress code to my liking. Play with the structure using what I know from my ecommerce and SEO experience. Get visitors through social networks. Experiment with advertising and monetization techniques.

The Goal: a set of plugins to upload to any Wordpress installation, a set of flagship articles to seed the blog and a set of tools to get traffic to the site. Then all I would have to do is write.

The Reality: this takes a long time. With 563 gaping holes in my blog and my internet activities, I have to choose a place to start. And writing about it is quicker than doing it.

Processes change and evolve. I wrote a post about a quick way to add images to your blog and I use a different method now. I wrote about how I use Entrecard and now that has changed a few times since the post. I wrote about tools you can use to find blogs to comment on and now I mainly use Entrecard and Google Reader, but I do really like Comment Sniper for those sites I really want to keep up with.

But sometimes I am just straight lazy. Sometimes I mean to put pics in a post and then drop the ball before I post it. Sometimes I mean to link to past posts and then I get bored while tracking them down. I have the All in One SEO Pack installed and recently found HeadSpace2. I use the SEO Pack less than half the time. I haven’t even activated HeadSpace2 or tested it yet.

There is enough people out there to give you the one true way. And if you are still looking for that, you will find it and they will be happy to have you.

I have been listening to old school internet marketing conference call recordings on the way to work lately and I have learned a lot from them. Not about how to make money. But about getting someone to catch onto the concept.

It’s a veil. And having the one true way will take a lot of options away from you. Whatbrunette_business_busy_238464_l else will? Believing that the person showing you the way is perfect and above reproach and does everything he says.

I once had a telemarketing call as a result of a Clickbank product I purchased. At that time I realized, the guys out there that have altogether, don’t. They work real hard to make it look like they do and then they hire staff.

The only other option I see is doing a lot of blow, a lot. But any more, coffee is about as far as I will go with a little Red Bull thrown when I need an extra kick.

So take a look at the gaping holes in my methods and laugh. Look around for where I drop the ball and have a little righteous indignation. Because that is an even bigger lesson.

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11 Responses to "You Can Trust Me Just About As Far…"

1 | Jenna (1 comments.)

April 3rd, 2008 at 9:45 am

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We have something in common! I have a strong dislike for hypocrites as well!

2 | Tim (3 comments.)

April 3rd, 2008 at 11:02 am

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Every piece is part of the puzzle, and anyone who believes there is a set in stone path to success is a fool. If that path ever did come to be, it would quickly be destroyed by thousands of people following the exact same methods.

Good link post ;)
Tim’s last blog post..Stop Bleeding Money Into Affiliate Marketing

3 | Stephan Miller

April 3rd, 2008 at 11:20 am

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Thanks. I noticed my search engine hits slipping and had to so something. LOL

4 | Marcus Hochstadt (13 comments.)

April 3rd, 2008 at 1:25 pm

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I disagree a bit with what Tim said. There do exist proven paths, and if one really does follow those proven paths one does succeed.

However, more often than not those who do not succeed while “following” a proven path do not really follow it from A-Z. They may think that step 5 is not necessary, or that they could skip step 13 because it would be too foolish to do it, and on and on. All excuses…

See it happening all the time. But then they start complaining it wouldn’t work…

Nothing against you personally, Tim, I really appreciate you! It’s just that I can’t stand those who complain a proven path (proven by thousands of others) wouldn’t work while, actually, they are the ones who destroy their own path to success.

Marcus Hochstadt’s last blog post..Top 50,000 Is Approaching, Next Party Is Coming!

5 | Stephan Miller

April 3rd, 2008 at 1:29 pm

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Then again a proven path is well-tred. If I wanted to take a path like that, I would have been a stock broker.

6 | Search Engine Panel (1 comments.)

April 4th, 2008 at 4:28 am

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The SEO plugins are useful but the important thing is knowing how to use them properly for your blog. I’m also a fan of the all-in-one-seo plugin but haven’t had a chance to try headspace2 either.

Search Engine Panel’s last blog post..Acquiring .EDU Links Through Yahoo Search

7 | Mirjam (27 comments.)

April 4th, 2008 at 4:56 am

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oh man, so many things ring a bell, you don´t happen to be “aries”, right?

Maybe you don´t get to making that generic plan because you do know things change and evolve. What can be working today, might not be working all that well in a week, month etc?

Mirjam’s last blog post..My own Belief System Made it Impossible to Become Rich

8 | Stephan Miller

April 4th, 2008 at 8:19 am

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Yes, my birthday was the 29th of March. And I do hate seeing anything set in stone because I know progress isn’t.

9 | Michael Aulia (9 comments.)

April 4th, 2008 at 5:17 pm

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Well I do believe that there are different paths that points to the same goal, and one path may work for A, but not for B.

Michael Aulia’s last blog post..Don’t like WordPress “Fresh” administration theme? Try Fluency

10 | Haney (1 comments.)

April 5th, 2008 at 6:10 am

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I had activated the SEO plugin but had little time to master it. You are right, sometimes I can’t be bothered to do back links in my posts, although it is quite an important step.

Haney’s last blog post..Celebrate Your Partner?s Victory

11 | Stephan Miller

April 5th, 2008 at 9:30 am

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I think it just takes a while to build new habits. A few months after you do, it becomes a rut. And then it’s time to mix it up again. A constant cycle.

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