Stephan Miller

22 Jan, 2008

Supension of Disbelief

Posted by: Stephan Miller In: Journal| Make Money

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Pick any blog on the internet that claims to teach you how to build traffic, what monetization method to use, and how to go about this blogging thing and you will get a lot of opinion. Go to the next blog and you will find a different set of "must-have" techniques. And sometimes, the first blogger will call the other blogger an idiot for doing things the way he does them.

I ran into this with affiliate marketing also. "It’s all in the list". Well, the list didn’t work for me. Made me feel too much like  a spammer sending out thousands of emails a day only to get nothing back. And I have met a lot of people who have not had luck with email marketing either. But there are still some people it works for. Just not me.

But I guess it’s that way with everything. The problem is that some internet marketing, blogging, [add yours here] gurus tend to like to make little clones. Or maybe they don’t.

Have you ever met the true believers? They are everywhere. Everything that dribbles out of their guru’s mouth is gold. Anything that contradicts what their guru says is false. This is a very limited way of looking at things. There are few of these peoplethat definitely give me almost a Tom Cruise cultish vib like SFI users and Corey Rudl converts, but any system can do this to a person. But I think it’s the person’s fault. He did it to himself.

It’s amazing to make money from the internet. Almost like printing it. And that can have a powerful effect on the psyche. It can make a person afraid to stop what they are doing to try anything new. "I might mess a good thing up." But just because you made a few dollars doing one thing doesn’t mean that something else won’t work better for you.

Before the affiliate marketing, I signed up for every "Make Money at Home" deal I could find. I didn’t pay for anything. I just signed up to get all the sales materials. And they were just the same.

So I use suspension of disbelief when I read anything that could have opposing viewpoints. It’ not belief and it’s not my normal heaping helping of skepticism. It’s what allows me to get into a Sci-Fi movie but stops me just short of wearing a Wookie costume to a convention.

And when it deals with making money, there are even more crackpots than there is in religion or comic book stores. You just have to wait until you try the method yourself. Don’t be a fan boy. And don’t be a naysayer.

 

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6 Responses to "Supension of Disbelief"

1 | Annie (1 comments.)

January 22nd, 2008 at 1:33 pm

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Of course everyone wants to make money, me included, but I try to keep my blog in mind when I do things and not my checkbook. If you looked at my checkbook you would know this to be very true, ha ha! I spend a lot of time reading everyone’s advice and I check things out that I find interesting or that I think might work for me. Like you said though, not everything is for everyone. You have to figure out what works for you and your integrity or lack thereof. I feel like my blog is a work in progress all the time. Thanks for the stuff you share. Your kind of writing makes an easy read!!

Annie’s last blog post..Assisted Living at Sea

2 | Badger Gravling (1 comments.)

January 22nd, 2008 at 1:58 pm

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I totally agree. Most ‘Making Money’ sites are regurgitating basic advice to avoid giving away the secrets that made them so successful.

Unless you become their special friend, or buy their E-book.

The simple answer is that there isn’t an easy way to make money. That’s what makes it valuable. So just get out there and try things, and experiment.

Badger Gravling’s last blog post..Find the right balance between easy and hard

3 | Stephan Miller

January 22nd, 2008 at 2:07 pm

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I just really believe its hard to make sense of it all. The gurus tell you one thing. Another guru tells you another. The general population calls it a scam. Thanks for commenting.

4 | John Hunter (1 comments.)

January 23rd, 2008 at 9:43 pm

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The most important advice is to write stuff people find valuable. That doesn’t really help that much though - it is easy to follow some recipe providing something useful takes thought.

There are some things you can do after you have stuff people find valuable. But so many people just talk about gimmicks over and over. Gimmicks can actually help sometimes. But without something worth reading they don’t often help.

John Hunter’s last blog post..Shorting Using Inverse Funds

5 | Stephan Miller

January 24th, 2008 at 7:00 am

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It’s better to know why the gimmick works and reverse engineer that to create other gimmicks.

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