Stephan Miller

26 Feb, 2008

Success, One Mistake at a Time

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DumbAss I am a dumbass when it comes down to it. I was going to list a whole bunch of mistakes I have made here, but then realized that some of them make me cringe when I see them. I start a project as a perfectionist and when I finish it, I am an impatient asshole. And my running stats are win one and lose five or something like that.

The one thing that I see that separates me and many other online marketers from a lot of people who I have met and who have asked me how to make money online is that I am not afraid of looking like a dumbass. I also am not afraid to break something.

This is not rocket science. This is not brain surgery. No one is going to die if I mess up. So sitting and thinking about what I could do if only I knew how is not going to get me anywhere. And I thought this was what being American was about, a "do it yourself" attitude. For those reading from other countries, I am not a flag waver but I will use it for effect.

But some time ago a lot of us got lazy. We don’t have to know about how the car works. We have a mechanic. We don’t have to worry about our health or what we eat. That’s what doctors are for. We don’t have to worry about our kids. That’s what the schools are for. There is always someone to do it for us.

Even school. I can’t learn that. I can’t afford college. What? Everything is in a freaking book. A piece of paper on the wall doesn’t help me with my advertising campaigns. It doesn’t get me higher pay from my boss, me. And it better be printed on gold and cover the whole wall.

I had to learn some things because I was flat broke. I have been doing that since I was aCatapult kid. We couldn’t afford some things when I was young so I build things like scale catapults out of tree limbs that could launch random objects over the neighbor’s house. Beat that with your BB gun.

Money didn’t stop me when the only real requirement was knowledge and action. The computer books from the clearance rack at Compusa would be good enough to start and that’s how I started. Or I could have just dreamed about the time I could afford a $60 book. Anything that can stop you, will.

So you want some mistakes. Here goes:

I had a site called profit-ware.com. My first. I used all the seo techniques I learned to get it ranked. But I didn’t know how to check the rank at the time and I wasn’t sure how to monetize it. It was a year before I did. A few weeks after I did I was making $100 a day from it. I could have been making that much the whole year before that.

But that is not the end of that story. I monetized it by republishing the Clickbank marketplace on the fly without any caching. So basically you would land on a monetized page and the script would grab a page from Clickbank and print it out. Each and every time. That would have eventually caused an issue, but Google got me first and banned my site.

I built a site that took the top 100 search phrases expanded them by using the Overture keyword tool and then used a blog search engine to find matching posts. It was just an experiment. It wasn’t monetized in any way. That SOB got some traffic. I could look at my stats and find hot "long-tail" terms right away before that term "long-tail" existed. But again, I did it with out any caching and the blog search engine I was using frowned on my site and cut me off.

I built a social bookmarking site when there were only about 50. On a shared host. It was a few months before the host said I had to shut it down. I was using more than my share of the processor.

First hand experience is better than learning from a book. I know the consequences of my mistakes first hand. I didn’t break anything. Google banned a site, but from what I learned, I had a new site making money within a couple of months. And now I catch issues similar to this within a week or so.

932458_ribbon_2 Which is why I giggled a little when the last round of Google updates went around. "Stop whining. I had a site banned and came back. You just lost your blue ribbon for a while. Boo frickin Who"

There are other hosts and other sites and other ways to make money. I did not mention all of my mistakes. I have been through five hosting providers and it wasn’t my choice to leave. Now I lease my own box.

It hasn’t been easy. I actually had to get off the couch every once and while and do stuff myself. Well I guess that’s a lie. I work at the computer.

So my #1 piece of advice. Don’t be afraid to break things. Don’t be afraid of being stupid. Don’t be afraid of anything that keeps you from moving forward, because fear is your enemy, Yes, people used to get burned at the stake and hung for mistakes and for being different. Now they only get sent to Guantanamo. Not that bad.

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17 Responses to "Success, One Mistake at a Time"

1 | Susan

February 26th, 2008 at 9:38 am

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I am just starting out and somehow ended up here, glad I did. Long story short had to quit my 9-5 job and stay home with my 3 children for daycare costs and also for health reason my youngest daughter has cystic fibrosis.

I enjoyed reading the article, and there was a lot to retain, I will be coming back to reference many different thing. I have an enormous infomation to learn. It is going to trial and error even if you follow instrustion to the tee. Hope that is ok.

Thank you its be a pleasure visiting.

Susan’s last blog post..Children getting bit by dogs

2 | Stephan Miller

February 26th, 2008 at 11:10 am

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It takes a while and instructions only go so far. Eventually you have to build on what you originally learned through instructions and turn it into your own way of doing things. Good luck to you and thanks for dropping by.

3 | JTPratt's Blogging Mistakes

February 26th, 2008 at 12:57 pm

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I think more people should post their successes as well as failures. Success is only 10,000 mistakes away! That’s why my entire site is about mistakes….

JTPratt’s Blogging Mistakes’s last blog post..Sidebar Clutter Makes a Gutter

4 | Stephan Miller

February 26th, 2008 at 1:27 pm

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Me also. I was looking to buy the domain asshatseo.com a while back just for that purpose.

5 | Mike

February 26th, 2008 at 1:53 pm

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Great article. Very motivating. I learned how to diagnose computer problems in the DOS days by messing up my own computer (usually trying to play games) and then having to fix it.

I am interested in creating a social networking site, and I recently started playing around with Linux. I’m sure I’ll have plenty of opportunities to break things :)
Mike’s last blog post..Dream Home Gym

6 | Lin Burress

February 26th, 2008 at 1:54 pm

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I think we all have those moments where we feel like a complete idiot. I know I have, but we just have to keep trudging along and learning from our mistakes, and keep putting one foot in front of the other. Sooner or later things start working how we hope they will.

Lin Burress’s last blog post..Keeping the Fire Alive in Your Marriage

7 | Stephan Miller

February 26th, 2008 at 2:46 pm

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It is amazing how you go from idiot to expert just by being willing to get your hands dirty. Let me tell you something else. I have worked side by side with guys that have a computer science degree. Having a degree doesn’t mean crap unless you still have the same attitude. If you don’t have the attitude then you are just a cog being told what to do. Plus most of the stuff you need to learn to do this is being developed as we speak. It’s just not in the textbooks.

8 | Issac

February 26th, 2008 at 9:31 pm

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“Fortune favors the bold, and those with back up plans.”

9 | Marcus Hochstadt

February 26th, 2008 at 9:59 pm

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There’s an interesting and effective approach I usually follow.

In trainings or teachings in a group, most people are/were afraid to be the first dummy. I always wanted to be the fist trying that new technique or that new strategy out right in front of the crowd. Why?

That way, I hadn’t had any time thinking whether it’s a good idea to go there or not. There was no time available developing silly excuses or fears. You just gotta go here and perform!

The great thing about this approach was/is that I learn(ed) the most and gained incredible rewards (in terms of personal development and improvement) whenever I chose to be the first proband. :-)
Marcus Hochstadt’s last blog post..Video Site Review

10 | Stephan Miller

February 27th, 2008 at 6:08 am

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Thanks Marcus. An ironic thing is I am very afraid of public speaking. I guess that is what I have to work on.

11 | Jason Boom

February 27th, 2008 at 11:35 am

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I’m humbled by your honesty, Stephan. I still think asshatseo would be an awesome site!

I have a new venture where I’m getting my hands dirty as we speak. I hope it turns out to be a great success and not a failure. I’ve had too many of those. ;)
Jason Boom’s last blog post..Blog Networks: to Join or Not to Join?That is the Question

12 | Stephan Miller

February 27th, 2008 at 11:47 am

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Well, I starting writing more honest posts because if you go to the big blogging and internet marketing blogs, you would think the bloggers were perfect. I have read so many posts where you just have to do this, then that, then the next, and magically everything falls into place. I call bullshit.

I think the “perfection” of some bloggers throws a lot of newbies off. Makes then think they are worthless because they don’t have the same perfect results.

It took a while to find a tone and theme for this blog. I think I hit it dead on lately.

13 | Marcus Hochstadt

February 27th, 2008 at 12:05 pm

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I agree, and many others have that too. And that’s my point…

Fear of public speaking grows when you give it time to develop. Though, by walking right in front, chances are you rather focus on the task at hand. You may even forget there are others in the room.

Same applies to what you talked about, Stephan… fear of mistakes and “imperfectionism.” Do it anyway, right in the moment the idea occurs, and the concern (”But what if…”) usually disappears.

Easy to say, of course, and I have lots of fears myself. Still, isn’t it a skill which we can train and “perfectionize” along the way? :-)
Marcus Hochstadt’s last blog post..Video Site Review

14 | Stephan Miller

February 27th, 2008 at 12:10 pm

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Yes, and a lot of these posts are for me just as much as anyone else reading them. When I started them I knew what I was going to write. At the end I learned something new. My fear of speaking may seem hypocritical after this post, but I recognize it and know it needs work. And these posts are sometimes the way I do things and sometimes a mixture of that and the way I want to do things.

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17 | Lupe Fiasco

June 12th, 2008 at 2:46 am

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I’m really glad I was able to find your blog. You are speaking the absolute truth. I’m looking to become a decent internet marketer myself but there are so many things to learn. It seems wherever I look, there’s something I don’t know about. I just keep telling myself to focus on one niche and go from there. Thanks for the motivating post mate.

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