Stephan Miller

04 Mar, 2008

Adjusting to Sporadic Cash

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Money This is a good year. Affiliate marketing is recession proof. If Americans are broke, I can sell in Australia, England, Canada and other English speaking countries. But I really haven’t had to. By focusing my efforts with techniques I learned from Zen to Done and other books, I have steadily been increasing my online income. In fact, if I take one of the last few months and compare it to last year, I have replaced by day job’s income.

I don’t make much at the day job. Take what you would consider running an ecommerce site and the operations behind would pay and cut it at least in half. But it’s an easy job with the perks that I have always got any day off I wanted, I only work 4 days, and I am left to myself.

Plus I know what I want in life. I don’t want to retire with some else’s name on my company approved shirt. And it would be harder to walk away from a job that paid what I consider I am worth. I would have to replace twice as much income.

My wife doesn’t work because we believe it takes a family to raise a child and the villageCrowd should keep it’s nose and it’s lowest common denominator values, dogmas and ideas out of it. We didn’t choose this village and according to the village, we have gone about everything the wrong way. But I am here writing this post. Once the average intelligence of the general population beats that of all the members of my family, then I might listen. Shouldn’t a value have value?

So I kept my day job and starting playing with stuff I had been researching for a few years, affiliate marketing. And I was lucky to start making some money a few months later and by a year, the money that someone would pay a guy will a G.E.D. couldn’t touch what I made online.

But affiliate marketing has it’s ups and downs. If you aren’t bipolar it can quickly make you so. Happy when the money’s good and panic when things aren’t so bright. And full-fledged dread when a $30,000 a year site gets banned by Google. I am half way through my third year and am finally adjusting to it. Of course, the cumulative effect of three years of work can stabilize the income a little.

"Make Money Online" ebooks and blogs for the most part leave you hanging after you have the money in your pocket. And to tell you the truth I have run into very few ebooks I would call a downright "scam". Most people are just lazy or jump in at the wrong point and then throw "scam" around to justify their failure.

My day job just about covers the mortgage payment and groceries each month. That’s it. All the insurance, hospital bills, the rest of the groceries, etc. come out of the checks that fluctuate. And they can fluctuate dramatically from $8000 profit one month to $2000 the next especially in the early stages.

It is hard to see a pattern like that into you are in it for a year. And it takes a while to adjust. The first year, we went through a few months of being poor and jumped a few brackets straight into middle class. It’s dramatic and can give you a false sense of security.

Ferrari We had a great Christmas, got married, bought a car (the Ferrari’s a joke and a dig) and bought a house in that year. At first, there was excess money. When it started running out, I had to come up with something. As a single, I lived pretty Spartan. I couldn’t force that on my family.

Now I run a two week evolving budget based on the checks that come in. Savings comes out first. Then the advertising credit card. Then bills. Then groceries. Then we go to the list. The list of needs and wants that is waiting on money.

Some periods there is nothing left for the list. That is when we used to run for the credit cards. "I can make it up next month". Next month lasted for half a year at times. Half a year where I pushed myself hard. I hate debt. I ran up $30,000 in credit card debt in my early twenties (you can actually ignore these people indefinitely and use current credit to beat out old debt) and I don’t want to go there again.

For now, that’s what works for me. It will evolve of course. Any plan that doesn’t is doomed for failure because change is natural. But I wanted to point out that there are many facets to learning how to make money online, which is the whole point of this blog to begin with.

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15 Responses to "Adjusting to Sporadic Cash"

1 | Mattaw

March 4th, 2008 at 9:19 am

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This is a great and inspiring personal story. I do hope that you will continue to earn this much, and eanough to quit your day job. I personally love stories like this, keep up the great work.

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2 | Alex

March 4th, 2008 at 10:12 am

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Stephen,

You got some great points here and I personally couldn’t agree more on your statement of raising a family :) My wife is a doctor and stay at home mom with one of the reasons being what you have stated.

After all - income aside, what is the most important?

Alex

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3 | Stephan Miller

March 4th, 2008 at 10:23 am

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My family, of course. I am reading The 4 Hour Work Week currently to free up more time for them. Books have dramatic effects on me. Can’t wait for what this ones does.

Plus, you bring up one of the reasons I moved from invisible affiliate guy to blogger. I could walk down my street or go to the grocery store and not find one person who agrees with me on family values in my city. But here I connect and my ideas don’t seem as fragile.

We are about one step away from home schooling. I was home schooled. So when I say all I have is a G.E.D, it’s an understatement. The last four years were 50% electives. I choose things like Constitutional law, college level physics, college level economics, etc. By the time I was in 7th grade, I could have had my diploma.

But I don’t see this as advanced. I see myself as a normal person who doesn’t see “no”, who takes action, and who moves forward. And I also subscribe to the unconventional belief that intelligence is more nuture than nature.

4 | Durano Lawayan

March 4th, 2008 at 11:01 am

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Hi Stephan,
I agree with you on the many facets of making money online. To the uninitiated, there is also the real possibility of being duped online and losing a lot of money on worthless buys and investments.

Family indeed comes first, it’s the basic reason we work. If we lose track of this then we become focused on ourselves and our selfish ambitions. There was a time when I refused to accept a new post as a Regional head for a huge European company because it meant a lot of traveling and less time for my kids. I never looked back and I’m all the better for it. I have yet to hear of a dying man whose last words would be “I should have stayed longer at the office”.

The volatility of income online is to be expected. What needs to be done is to live on a particular budget and stick to it. The excess that comes at certain months should all go to savings. Theres plenty of time to enjoy the savings later. Bonding with kids doing the simplest things will make them better grounded. Communication between kids and parents will be better too, less problems when they reach the terrible teen years. Your approach about savings being the first to be allocated is correct and has been proven many times to be most effective.

Congratulations, you are on your way to building a really good life founded on your own effort, skill, natural ability and “nurtured intelligence”. I wish you more luck. Take care. –Durano, done!

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5 | Stephan Miller

March 4th, 2008 at 11:16 am

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Thanks! My wife is the biggest part of this. It is amazing when you find someone you love who thinks like you and can tell you when you’re an idiot. She is also the reason for my shift to a more personal instead of technical tone.

6 | George

March 4th, 2008 at 12:06 pm

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I just came across your blog and I really like this post. I was very happy to see you say that most ebooks aren’t scams. I have recently seen some people say the exact opposite and I think it’s just because they don’t actually try to do what the ebook says.

I will have to go check out the rest of your blog…

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7 | Stephan Miller

March 4th, 2008 at 12:28 pm

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I do have gripes with ebooks. But the right paragraph in the right ebook can be worth twice what I paid for it. And sometimes just reading the sales page is enough. I think there are levels of marketing. You just have to find the right information for the level you are currently at and then the book is worth it. Mismatch the two and it lost it’s value.

8 | MarketingDeviant

March 4th, 2008 at 2:18 pm

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Affiliate Marketing isn’t really for me. It has to be the best if I were to promote it. Something a lot of products and services fall short on.

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9 | Stephan Miller

March 4th, 2008 at 2:37 pm

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The thing about affiliate marketing is this:
Name a product you used today.
I can find an affiliate program for it.

A lot of people assume that affiliate marketing is ebooks and software. It can be. But it can also be vacations, cars, diamond rings, food, leads, just about everything except air just because they haven’t figured out a way to sell air yet. But water. I can find an affiliate program for that.

10 | BillyWarhol

March 5th, 2008 at 1:32 am

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What a great Refreshing Post to read on Internet Marketing* Now I wanna Ferrari!! I got 4HWW + my New Year’s Rezolution was to Read it + Focus* Naturally i got sidetracked after Ch. 3 but it’s a Great Read*

;)) Peace*

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11 | Marie

March 5th, 2008 at 3:26 am

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Hi Stephan,

Thanks for sharing your story and experiences. I really appreciate your honesty and it’s great to see how you have evolved. I’m always interested in hearing people’s stories because we can all learn from each other.

All the best…

Marie’s last blog post..Blippr, Flugpo and Flickrspy

12 | Stephan Miller

March 5th, 2008 at 8:24 am

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@Billy,

I have about eight books I am currently reading because of that. I found software that helps me read PDF’s faster but unfortunately, it doesn’t work for real books.

@Marie,

Thank you. I will try to keep posts like this coming.

13 | Mirjam

March 6th, 2008 at 6:21 am

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Another great and real post.

But …Affiliate marketing is recession proof? … gotta think about that a bit… I might be for Americans… who use dollars anyways… imagine using euros though and find all affiliate checks being only 2 thirds of the value :(

On the other hand, it does give me the advantage of buying stuff cheaper though, so I guess I shouldn´t complain too much. ;)

btw… I hope you are okay with my “Follow Up” post

Mirjam’s last blog post..Dilemma of a Blogger Follow Up

14 | Stephan Miller

March 6th, 2008 at 7:08 am

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I liked the follow up.

The American dollar is pretty bad right now. I thought about getting into Forex with the idea that there is no way to lose as long as I bet against the American dollar.

But I need to look into that. They short change you in Europe?

15 | Mirjam

March 6th, 2008 at 5:32 pm

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… short change is quite the understatement… with $1.51 to € 1.00.

I remember travelling to the states 6 or 7 years ago, it was the other way around :( And when trying to cash aff. cheques it takes around 5 to 6 weeks to have the money in my bankaccount here in Spain …

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